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Thoughts Decide The Personality - Personality Decides The Destiny


Pattern of thinking decides the personality. Your attitude, interactions, relations all depends on thought pattern. How you react to the situation is very much decided by your way of thinking. If you face situation boldly, happily or accept it is as a challenge you project a well composed, mature personality and attract positive response from others. If the same conditions are handled in apprehension, thoughts of inadequacy and insecurity, we project lack of confidence or an irritable or confused personality which repels people. 

We build up the feeling of insecurity or security by the way we think. If we think negatively and focus our attention on dire events that might happen, the result will be insecurity. Those who think they are unable to handle, they have doubts about their powers, abilities develop fear, they withdraw. If you face difficult situations with confident and optimistic thought pattern the outcome is different altogether.

When I think I will remain happy, peaceful, pleasant, cheerful the outer circumstances or the comments made by others will not decide because it is my thought pattern that will decide my reaction. My reaction to criticism, praise, defeat, win very much depends on the thought pattern. Through thought management I can overpower my preoccupations jealousy, hurt, inferiority or ego.

The basic thing which affects is the way I consider myself as who am I and the other person is. If I take myself as a relation, a position I possess, a male or female, as body or, on the other hand, as a soul and the other person in the same way, reactions are different to the same situation. Considering both as souls which are originally peace loving, affectionate, happy, positive, cheerful, kind and children of God will convert the world into heaven. The position in the society or office creates ego and that gives the thoughts of superiority/ inferiority, happiness/hurt/jealous/anger etc.

So changing the thoughts one can change his /her life. How we think we feel has a definite effect on how we actually feel physically. If your mind tells you that you are tired, the body mechanism the nerves and the muscles accept the fact. If your mind is intensely interested, you can keep at an activity indefinitely. The physical condition is determined very largely by our emotional condition and our emotional life is profoundly regulated by our thought life. The hormone secreted by hypothalamus has favourable effect on our body in positive emotions. The corticosteroids secreted during fear, stress, anger, jealousy has negative effects on heart and other body parts, increases gastric juice secretion leading to gastric ulcers, interfere with higher mental function, causes thickening of bones which may cause fractures with mild trauma and so on, if the increased levels are maintained for prolonged time.

Situations are always multifaceted. Practically speaking, there is always a negative angle in a seemingly positive situation and there is always a positive side in a negative situation. Because of our thought pattern, we develop a habit of looking at things from a positive side or a negative side. Our habits in turn, decide the strength of our character and personality. To what extent people cooperate with us depends on our personality and to what extent laws of Nature or Destiny supports us depends on our Character.

Thus, if we want to live a fulfilling enjoyable life, a habit of thinking positively and reacting accordingly is the key. Positive thinking can be developed by consciously filling the mind with positive thought. Saturate your thoughts with peaceful experiences, peaceful words and ideas. Just apply a full stop whenever negative thoughts come to your mind .switch them towards the positivity. As we discussed previously whatever energy we sent in universe the same comes back to us. Therefore turning our thoughts towards positivity is actually doing mercy on us and not on the other person.


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Godwin this is quite revealing. Thanks

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